For married people or people in loving, committed relationships:
I never understood the term “make love” for serious. Lol I mean, of course you have strong feeling for the other person or you wouldn’t be in a relationship with them in the first place. Aren’t being complete freaks one of the advantages of being in a long-term relationship? Going to a favorite show, laughing together, sharing views on life/death just spending time together is love. I view being close as kissing and holding each other while not having thoughts of wanting to be fucked as being romantic. However, I also view being fucked good as a way to share too. I always tell my love, “I love you” after we have sex and then I normally go get something to eat. Lol I am a complete romantic. I write love poems/notes, sing songs (god helps us), and do the things we both enjoy but there is a time and place for that. Why ruin a good time just because you see all the romance movies selling you this idea of passionate ‘love making’ in the movies? Keep the passion just lose this idea of boring sex. I believe the real issue is not helping to make the other person feel special.
and of course my romantic song:
NINE INCH NAILS - "CLOSER" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ccY25Cb3im0