Anti-Neocons

Yes I was talking about women in general.

I share from time to time because I am happy and I like to "help" my unhappy friends when they ask. The internet isnt always the most helpful to a relationship.

hmmm

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When false religion is established, when all avenues of protest are closed, when potential revolutionaries are bribed, coopted or killed, then Hussein's model teaches man to be a martyr, and by his death witness to the truth and shake the evil empire:

"It is an invitation to all ages and generations that if you cannot kill, die".

- Ali Shariati

While I was doing some research online, it seems that the old idea that women are uninterested in sex still dominates the medical world. As a women and a person who has done a lot of research in this department, I can tell you that this is completely false.

That fact is that women do masturbate. In fact, during this self exploration most women learn how their body works and what they like. Ever see those personal Trojan massagers? They aren’t thinking about a romance novel while doing this either. Women often look at porn or other sexual pictures but many seem to not want you too. The double standard is that most women don’t want their man looking at other people much less other women and they will tell you, how dirty porn and how could anyone look at something so gross, meanwhile getting off too it.

Women want orgasims and when they become aroused by various things they don’t always want to have to lay through the entire song and dance when they could hop in the bath and have the shower head get them there in 2mins or just hop back in bed and take care of it themselves then move on with the day.

Women do like variety. The same old song and dance isn’t going to work nor does the same toy. Sex toys and massagers are great for bedtime. Buy her something, she will like it.

Different locations and not just in the house either. Take her to the park. Last weekend my husband and I climbed on top of one of his buildings at work, besides the bird crap, it was great. This risky bussiness is super fun cause of the element of danger.

Men shouldn’t be scared of their women enjoying sex. Yes she is the mother of your child and the one you love, but that doesn’t mean she should go back to the 50’s and lay on her back in bed and be bashful. Pleasing your women is an expression of your feelings for her. If your women always has a headache, that should be a red flag. Either you don’t please her, she is angry with you and could mean many things but it shouldn’t go ignored.

Another secret the- time- of- the- month shouldn’t be the time you hide. Women are super sensitive during this time and orgasims actually helps her because it causes the uterus to contract helping her flow. Might sound gross but you will feel like the man when your women is trembling because of you.

To be continued..

For married people or people in loving, committed relationships:
I never understood the term “make love” for serious. Lol I mean, of course you have strong feeling for the other person or you wouldn’t be in a relationship with them in the first place. Aren’t being complete freaks one of the advantages of being in a long-term relationship? Going to a favorite show, laughing together, sharing views on life/death just spending time together is love. I view being close as kissing and holding each other while not having thoughts of wanting to be fucked as being romantic. However, I also view being fucked good as a way to share too. I always tell my love, “I love you” after we have sex and then I normally go get something to eat. Lol I am a complete romantic. I write love poems/notes, sing songs (god helps us), and do the things we both enjoy but there is a time and place for that. Why ruin a good time just because you see all the romance movies selling you this idea of passionate ‘love making’ in the movies? Keep the passion just lose this idea of boring sex. I believe the real issue is not helping to make the other person feel special.

and of course my romantic song:

NINE INCH NAILS - "CLOSER"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ccY25Cb3im0

Romantic? lol
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0m4zgtxQeRk

Happy belated birthday Khia!

http://youtu.be/OB4JDJiet5M